you are not gonna like this
ok my lovely little numbers family….I can already guess that 15 is gonna cause a huge controversy and arguments…so I’m gonna try to head it off and explain the main problem….
There are two catagories of readers here:
1. The adult readers who have been in adult sexual realtionships, have actually had there heart broken and realationships fall apart. This means REAL realtionship, outside of school, that lasted more than 3 months, where you really make yourself vulnearlble, and you really suffered when it ended.
2. Younger or less mature (but by no way less valuable or wonderful) readers who have either not been both sexualy and emotional active at the same time. Who have not had there hearts broken. Who have not been wheith someone and thought “they are the one” only to have it all fall apart years later for reasons your not even sure why.
the truth is, sex can is often a filler for many emotions, which is both a good and bad thing. As you mature, most of you will at one time or another use sex not as a way to express love, but as a way to fill lonleyness, heartache, bordome, or a million other things.
Does that make it bad? no! We are humans, and sex is a way to connect to someone when you feel alone. Does that mean its not fun? No, sometimes just having sex for fun is awesome, and a memory worth every second.
Is sex anything close to making love, to sharing souls? NO
thats why there is a difference. There is nothing more amazing than making love with someone and exposing all you are and taking in all they are. Like the ancients said, it is truley the closest one can get to god/godess and the universal connection.
So please, to those who fit in catagory 2:
dont freak out….what blaine did was normal, momentarily healthy, and will prob help in the long run. Remember to not judge, especially if you have not been there yet, and give it a few years to really see what the fuck is going on behind the surface.
and most of all remember, it’s just a story
To readers in catagory 1:
same thing, don’t judge, remember what it was like when you really believed that sex and love always came together. When you believed there was always a happy ever after, and true love lasts forever. And just be glad now that you are a little wiser and smile for that memory of innocents. It was a great time, and in all of us there is still a small part that hopes there is the one and only.
and most of all remember, it’s just a story
But most importantly for both groups, always be safe no matter what, and most of all remember, it’s just a story
-Anderson out!
lol, jk
love always,
Bridget
